Yesterday, Kalu gave his first daughter out
To a rich suitor. He left no kola nuts for his wife,
He ate everything, the way the bees take all the credits
For making honey, without acknowledging
The flowers who contributed nectar
Today, Kalu’s wife is shouting down
The village. Yelling at her second daughter:
What man would marry you,
If you don’t close your legs?
No man marries a loud woman,
Close your mouth! This is how
They tell girls to close this, and
Close that. Until the girls become
A closed door
Why is girlhood designed like
An internship program for marriage?
Why is the news of the arrival of a man’s
Fourth girl child passed quietly like an internal memo,
Written on the midwives’ lips
And signed by his wife’s sigh
I once asked:
Why can’t a girl inherit her father’s arrows?
They say: She has no quiver, that she might cry on them
Till they rust, that she does not even know how to hunt
Their answers angered me, maybe because anger
Is a force of inertia. It propels us towards change,
The type of change needed by a binary world,
Who sees only two colors; black and white,
And does not care about the shades of grey
Suffocating in the middle
Each time, I read the sign on a public restroom,
The reality of a unisex world
Becomes a quiet dream
Resting in the pouch of a girl,
In whose eyes, hides a starving rainbow